As I was listening to the explanation, I envisioned someone hyperventilating... The image flashed across my eyes and I thought no wonder some might faint or have a panic attack.
I was envisioning myself.
I took a deep breath. My body calmed from my deep breaths. Amazing that something so basic can have such a big effect.
Today and everyday has been stressful. There are changes at work. And a lot of the "What Ifs" are being played out by everyone...
I have learned with my recovery that a much better approach is to breath deep and remember that the moment is the moment, like the concept of One Day at a Time.
My employee stressed two times today, which is not like her. She stopped breathing for moments when she got to her peak and I look straight at her and told her, breath. I reminded her it was fixable. That we have safeguards for this specific reason. She took a deep breath and her color came back. And she realized that it would work out just fine.
When I need to remind myself to breath, I remember the moment in the movie, "Ever After" when Drew Barrymore's character states, "Just Breath." As she is walking into the ball.
A simple reminder for a simple thing to help one calm from a moment of stress: "Just Breath."
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